This is an in-depth group program that teaches coaching skills to parents to improve communication and foster independence, and then guides you through the process of practicing. It includes the most effective knowledge, tools, techniques, and strategies to understand how to use a coach-approach with your child. That training combines with a group coaching structure to help you apply your learning. It is as effective for a newbie to the world of complex kids as it is for seasoned parents who want to take things to the next level. Truly, any parent with a complex child of any age will benefit. This program hits the most important insights a parent of any complex kid needs to know. No messing around – we get right to the point, so you can create the lasting change you want for your family.
Frequently Asked Questions
Frequently Asked Questions
How is this different from other parenting programs?
How is this different from other parenting programs?
My child has not been diagnosed with anything. Will it still help me?
My child has not been diagnosed with anything. Will it still help me?
Absolutely! We welcome parents of what we like to call “complex” kids – children who struggle with any aspect of life, learning, behavior, social skills, or emotional management. An underlying diagnosis for your child's challenges may be suspected, or not! Either way, about 70% of kids with ADHD, for example, have other challenges, as well. These strategies are focused on how you approach your child and their challenges, so this method works for parents of all kids, with or without challenges, at any age. Of course, if ADHD, anxiety, autism, LDs, depression, or other challenges of executive function are suspected or diagnosed, it works for you, too. Bottom line: if you have a “complex” kid -- you probably know what we mean – and this is definitely for you.
My child is the one who is struggling. Why should I get help for me?
My child is the one who is struggling. Why should I get help for me?
Have you ever thought about that word: Parenting? Parenting is actually about us, not about our kids. Sure, part of the job of parenting is "child-rearing," or "raising kids," or whatever you want to call it. With one of our kids, we used to say that it is "my privilege to supervise her while she raises herself." But really -- parenting is not about kids. It's about who we are being while we are doing the work of loving and guiding our children. Our journey is to be with them on their journey -- and that can get complicated sometimes. Messy. Confusing! If you are a parent who knows that your parenting journey is definitely challenging you to learn some stuff. If you know that you're child is struggling and you are not clear, yet, how to help. If you know that your reactions are not helping things, and might even be making things more complicated. ... Then the change you want for your child starts with you.
How much of a commitment does this program require?
How much of a commitment does this program require?
The minimum commitment is three (3) months. That’s the typical time it takes for most parents to start noticing significant, lasting changes in their child’s behavior. Sanity School®'s Group Coaching was designed to be an ongoing, 12-month support program, so parents who stay beyond the three-month period report much more substantial results. They comfortably use the coach-approach even in stressful situations, and their kids’ independence improves dramatically. But for now, in roughly one (1) hour a week, you can make changes that start to improve family life immediately. Even better, as you practice and begin to incorporate this approach on a daily basis, you'll build stronger relationships that last for the rest of your life as a parent.
What age kids is this helpful for?
What age kids is this helpful for?
Since the coach-approach offers strategies for improving communication and fostering self-reliance (and so much more!), everything we do is designed for all parents of complex kids at any age or stage. So whether you have younger children (ages 4-12), teenagers (ages 13-18), or young adults (ages 19 - 40) (yes, we said 40 :-), you will learn skills and practice using tools to improve your communication, shift from directing to collaborating, and foster increasing independence in kids of any age. The earlier you start, the easier the changes. And truly, it's never too late to change the dynamic and improve your relationship (we promise!). So if you're parenting older kids, we assure you this will help. While we've been leading coaching groups since 2011, in 2021 we added extra groups to support parents of young adults. So now, our coaching groups are divided into four age groups: parents of kids of all ages; younger kids; older kids (teens); and young adults.
What if a child is taking medication? Or if I am unsure about medication?
What if a child is taking medication? Or if I am unsure about medication?
The point of medication when children are struggling with challenging issues is to reduce the frequency and intensity of their symptoms. And typically, it does not make all their challenges disappear. Parent support is recommended by all major medical associations as a first-line treatment, in addition to medication, because studies show that it improves outcomes. When symptoms are reduced, parents who receive training are able to work with their children to address executive function delays and improve a broad range of behaviors. A study published in the Journal of Clinical Child & Adolescent Psychology found that kids with ADHD who received behavioral treatment (meaning, their parents went through parent training) before starting medication had fewer behavioral problems than those who started with medication right away. There's also research to indicate that for young children, starting with behavioral interventions can delay, reduce, or even eliminate the need for medication in children with ADHD. Less medication means fewer side effects, such as trouble sleeping, loss of appetite, or personality changes. And if medication is not something you're considering at this point, then parent training is definitely the best next step.
What if I don’t like my group or they don’t fit my schedule?
What if I don’t like my group or they don’t fit my schedule?
Groups are led by several different coaches, and there are different options for each of the age groups. So if you’re not finding a coach or group to be the best fit for you, you can try another group. And if your schedule changes, or you can’t make it to your group on any particular week, you can always join another group that week, listen later, or even change groups as your schedule shifts throughout the year. We created this program with a flexible structure because, as a parent of complex kids, we know you need that to make it work in your life. While we encourage you to attend the groups live, some parents only ever listen to the recordings. It's really up to what works for you in your life, and your care consultant will help you figure out how to make it work for you.
Can my spouse / co-parent also join?
Can my spouse / co-parent also join?
We never charge extra for co-parents. We have spouses, co-parents, step-parents, grandparents and childcare helpers in our programs. Upon request, you can receive an additional login credential for someone supporting you to access the Sanity School® training videos at no additional cost. In addition, they may also join live coaching sessions with you or listen to the recordings on their own time, as well.
How long does it take to see results?
How long does it take to see results?
Many parents say they feel a deep sense of relief as soon as they sign up. That’s a great first result, and it’s just the beginning. Within one (1) month, you'll start to feel calmer and more hopeful. Tensions will begin to reduce. Within two to three (2 - 3) months, you’ll notice significant behavior changes in your child as they begin to respond to your new approach and more effective strategies than you may have tried in the past. This is why the minimum duration of the program is three (3) months. Parents tend to stay in our community for a much longer time because it's a great structure to give yourself a space, two to four (2 - 4) times a month, that encourages you to think about how you want to show up as a parent. With the support of your small group and coach, and ongoing access to Office Hours for immediate problem-solving support, you'll have a partner on your journey -- available as long as you want support.
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"Give yourself this gift! You won't regret it and your family will benefit as much as you will. It may seem a rather large outlay of money at the beginning but consider the cost of therapy. Worth every penny!"
- Annette K
- Annette K
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If you know this is for you but it is not financially within your reach, please inquire about our scholarship fund. Since the beginning of Impact in 2011, our commitment has been clear: we never want lack of funds to interfere with ANY parent's ability to learn the coach-approach.
Send us an email: TheTeam@ImpactParents.com
Send us an email: TheTeam@ImpactParents.com
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